"YOU" are the SOLUTION to every problem.
- Hiral Shah (@heersaga)
- Apr 27, 2019
- 5 min read
Read those Magical words again! "You" are the SOLUTION. Sink this line in your veins right away.

Complaining is so easy. Have you tried thinking about solutions? It's easier.
What's your Problem ? Where are you stuck ?
Career ? Money ? Relationship ? Unsatisfied life ?
Trust me on this - Every damn thing can be solved. NO, I am not doing it for you , but today, I am here to help you come out of the trap & fly. High & Higher.
Why am I doing it ? Coz, I have Learnt, Experienced, Read & have knowledge about it.
It'll be awesome if even 1 person understands this article & apply it to life. I'll feel like I have done a bit from my end Today. Coz my aim is to make use of each day.

Let's start here,
We are incharge of our lives, problem occurs when we give this charge to someone or something. For instance, suddenly after a certain age we wish to have a lot of money , proper career etc. I am not saying that's bad but how much do you think we work upon our goal ? Rather people select to waste time complaining & wander around wasting their energy here & there. After a certain while they accept the life they are living & put an agreement that life is tough & 'things don't go their way'. This is called giving the charge of your life to money or situation.
Life is simple. It is extremely beautiful. If you want money & a proper career, here is the solution "YOU" (take the charge to yourself).
Clear your mindset first. There are Trillions of things we listen from society & other medias that is Garbage but unfortunately grasp in our mind & we choose to believe it. First & foremost, clear that.
Garbage we hear -
-Money is the root to evil (Which, its not)
-Success is not everyone's cup of tea (Actually it is!)
-Spread your legs only until the size of your blanket ( Fucking buy a bigger blanket)
-Survival is on risk when you follow your dream (Not following your dream is killing you daily, what kind of survival are you looking for ?)
-You must have Job security (*Beep*)
-Dream for the moon, at least you will land up in stars (Dream for the fucking sky & damn you, work your ass off to own the whole universe-sun moon stars planets)
-Responsibilities before dreams ( Boy ,your first responsibility is you! Others know how to take care of themselves,also if you are unsatisfied , how the hell are you gonna satisfy others?)
-Market is down : Sab jagah Mandi hai ( "Mandi" is in your head!If you have working body parts & 1 brain, you are fucking capable of making bucks even in that situation)
& there are uncountable other rubbish that we hear in society & at some point start believing it. Come out of this trap & just listen to yourself, your heart, your intuitions. If you wish to make money & career, dig deep into yourself & ask what kind of work you would love to do (you need to understand the fact that you must love what you do & do what you love) , than you have mind-blowing thing in your hand -Google & Youtube to help you with solutions & tutorials to reach to your decided destination. You will say its not easy, but IT IS (try to fucking focus on a goal & don't stop until you reach). If you believe me! I take guarantee of what I am saying. You know when we go to buy a car, we suddenly start seeing that exact car every where around us . Why does this happen? Coz that car became our focus & automatically our mind takes us to the same thing where our focus is.
Same way, If you focus on the problems, the negative shit. You will have more of that in your life. If you shift your focus to changing your life for better, your mind is going to help you find all the damn solutions. So once you are clear with what you want, start working towards it & automatically your mind is gonna help you to see things that you were unable to see it before.

Let's come to relationships. Do you want a perfect life partner or better relations with your friends & family ?
Again the solution is "YOU". First & foremost thing that I learnt is ! Take responsibility of yourself first & than you will be able to take responsibilities of the relation that you are expecting to blossom. If you be Happy, the relations automatically cherish. But, problem arises when we give the charge to the other person to take care of you & your happiness. Why the hell we put this burden on someone's shoulder & expect that lil person to fulfil all our wild wishes? How the hell you get handicap when it comes to making yourself happy?
It is sweet & unmatchable feeling when we see someone loving us & taking care of us.But this happens only when we ourself value "us" & keep ourself in a state of happiness. The point we start complaining or expecting, becomes the start point of where the problems arise.
Have positive thinking when it comes to relations/emotions. Be nice, Be kind & do your thing.Give Love unconditionally to your partner & not to forget to yourself too. Things might not be cutie cutie always but YOU be cute (nice) always. Don't let your mind come in-between the matters of your heart. Love is "Heart" thing , "Mind" has to do nothing with it
& 99% of the problems arise when we overthink (Mind's work). Stop overthinking, go with the flow. Give Love, Time & Space & you will see things changing. & if it doesn't change, help yourself to change your focus. As I said "YOU" are the solution to every problem. Shift your focus on becoming a better person , shift your focus on bettering your life as a whole. Work on making Yourself & always have a positive mindset. You will than see right people jumping into your life & adding happiness in your life. Coz when you be happy, you attract happiness.
This is for every relation, not only with your partner. Have great communication with people around you, do your part & allow things to fall in their place automatically. Coz at the end , everything becomes wonderful. (guaranteed)

Unsatisfied life?
Are you not happy where you are right now ? Move . You are not a tree. How the hell life becomes unsatisfied when you are able to know what you love ? If you don't know, make a list of things you love to do & go complete that list with tick marks all over. That's how "YOU" take the charge of your happiness. Honestly, if we start questioning ourself , we get half of the solutions to our problems. But problem is , people don't take time to have a conversation with one's self. Sit in an empty room or on the window or in nature, where there are no disturbance & try to know yourself & your needs (it can be anything & it might take time to know/understand). But Once you get to this point , act to fulfil your needs/desires & see turning your life into most satisfied & happy life. And remember, your time is limited. Live each fucking day. Make use of every second of that clock & win it for yourself.

I will repeat myself once again, & you say it with me "YOU" are the SOLUTION to every problem.
Go, do something that will make you happy today, start living your life to the fullest. Play against all odds. Be your own Hero. Be happy & spread happiness. Have a goal. Have guts to fulfil it. Love with all your heart. You are the Best. You deserve the Best. Right thinking will give you Right life.
Bye.

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