10 things that will build your confidence.

Hi guys . I have uploaded a video of same on YouTube ! But this is for all my reader friends !! 

Confidence is a very important thing in one's life . Incase you wanna know how it is built ? I have learnt from experience these 10 things that will boost your confidence . 

1. SELF LOVE 

How many of you love yourself to the fullest? Without complaining and having doubts. Self love is utmost important for being a confident person. Self love includes taking care of yourself, pampering and enjoying the me time. Honestly I am a big "me time" person & it is said 'when your cup is full, you than can share it with others. So taking care of thyself, treating & pampering bring a lot of happiness & confidence. Now you might think How exactly its done ? I would say start your day wishing yourself a "good morning beautiful" or "good morning handsome" , the morning positive words can take your day to another level and I guarantee this. Than you can treat yourself with cakes,chocolates,gift or spa etc. That gives your heart an instant message of how much happy you are.Go for a walk/ride with a great music on. These things affect your mood which bring joy & directly boosts your confidence level.

2. POWER OF SPEECH

Under this topic there are two parts -

-There is a lot of power in speech. First & foremost its really important for you to be good in speech.That takes me to the time when our professors taught us to watch English series & read news papers. Once you have good command on language, you become confident to put your views infront of any group and you don't feel left out in any discussions.

-Same way there is a lot of power in words. Words means a lot . When you talk good, good happens.When you get the power to speech , its said "with great power comes great responsibility." Your responsibility is to share great work and great thoughts with yourself and others. Talking affirmation changes one's world. You wanna check? Go in front of a mirror now & look straight into your eyes & say "I am the best" . Repeat that thrice & see how instantly you built your confidence. I have a lot to talk on self-talk & affirmations & I will do that in another video for sure .

3. YOUR APPEARANCE 

" Comfort is over rated ", yes it surely is! 

Imagine yourself in a track pant & sneakers roaming around a good mall. 

Now imagine yourself properly dressed with heels/boots(boys)

Which outfit gives you confidence? Many may say Track pant - good, if that works for you. My point is - well dressed  person definitely feel confident from the inside & that is shown on one's face. I tried this once previously , when I was not in a good mood nor was I feeling confident ,I just dressed up & worn heel & boom I was back on fire.

4.KNOWLEDGE

Read a book & see how it feels. When you learn new thing you feel like sharing with others with confidence. Its not necessary to know it all but you can know a bit of everything & be a master in certain topic.I have heard this lines many a times " poor people have T.V and rich has Library" Pick a book of your interest today and see there is so much you don't know yet . My life personally changed because of great books I read & watching & listening to great videos. I personally read non-fiction , self help books .They are great.

Today, we are really lucky to get all the resources on our finger tip. If you are reading this - dude you are lucky! Make use of your luck and gain confidence to live.

5. YOUR SURROUNDING

Agree or No. Your surrounding makes a lot of difference in your life.When there are people around youth trust you, who wants you to win and supports you in all way, is surely a plus for your confidence.I am blessed to have such people in my life. Surrounding yourself with happy, positive and confident people will lead you to be the same. As said " You are the average of 5 people you hang out with" Which mens your circle matters . So check out whom you hang around.They inspire you ? or they just a negative about everything ?

Consciously take decisions of choosing who stay in your life and who needs to go. Negative vibes take you down in the graph where as positive once will force you to level up your game by words or action.

6. WHAT YOU INHALE & EXHALE 

Boy! Its very important to consciously know what you are feeding your mind with. I am totally against the sad quotes/bad news/sad songs etc. I don't understand why people choose to be in such atmosphere when they can change the channel from a bad new to something that makes you laugh . or why not people choose to read motivational & happy quotes rather than reading & sharing about bad/heart breaking quotes.Do you know how much these things affect your sub conscious mind?

Its so important for your mind to have thought that uplifts your mood and your confidence.Today if you are really passionate about have a happy life than take a decision of exhaling all the bad shit & focus on the good. No hate, no criticising, no hurt . Yes to love, complementing, spreading happiness etc. I was lucky enough to know at a very early age - how important it is to feed your mind with good stuff which gave me so much power and confidence in myself. I inhale good books & videos and booms life takes a u-turn to happy days immediately. I would love to share 1 book & 1 channel on youtube that will change your life too. I will share at the end of this talk.

7.HAVING A GOAL

Goal = Taking a task in hand = responsibility = needs confidence . This is how you build your confidence. You will know that your life has a meaning & nobody or no circumstance can ruin that. Taking responsibility of a goal is what turns the game on. Goal can be anything. Becoming something,getting a job, scoring good grades, taking care of someone etc.Point is ' just don't go with the flow'. For instance , when a kid is born , he enjoys his childhood and is completely dependent on parents for his needs and wants .He is not confident nigh to take care of himself all alone at first, but when he gets a young sibling to share this life journey. All of a sudden his behaviour change , he feel the responsibility , keeping the sibling happy and safe becomes his goal . He suddenly becomes confident to fight anything for that  lil one. 

Thats how it is. Here I gave example of sibling but your goal can be taking care of your business or your career or anything thats important for you. Thats how your confident is built .

8. MAKING A TO-DO-LIST & COMPLETING THAT TASK

This is a small habit that you can adopt  immediately for life. Writing down your to-do-list for the day & checking out all that is on list gives so much satisfaction & confidence. Try this exercise for 3 days & tell me whether it worked for you. When you write things down, your mind automatically becomes alert & focused which leads to a very productive day , which in turn brings so much confidence in thyself. Our brain suddenly starts feeling that we can do anything we want in life . (ps. this is true, we can actually do anything we want !! I will talk about it later).

To show confidence to the outside world, you first have to be confident from inside & this exercise will make you confident from the inside, I promise.

Preparing a list of what to do in a day, be it anything, any task, - bring veggies from  market or completing the assignment or going to bank for a deposit etc. . Any task is fine, just write it on a paper & once done just tick it off. & see that smile that will come on your face & confidence that will tell you how much you are capable of keeping up to what you decided to do.

9. CELEBRATING SMALL/BIG VICTORIES 

No matter how big or small your success is, celebrating it means applauding yourself for doing a great job. Celebrate it with a pastry/chocolate/your favourite food/a spa /salon treatment.Just celebrate. When I achieve something I eat my favourite food or go for a snooty ride or dance ;p but yes I celebrate . That makes me want to do more of what I did & achieve more & more. It really shows pride & love to your brain when a work is applauded. Thats how you need to pamper yourself.

And yes " what you give you get" when universe sees you celebrating it gives you more reasons to celebrate in future. 

10. VALUING YOUR PRINCIPLES

Confident people value their principles as its priority. There are a lot of things we learn as a child & with time we tend to  forget those values. But what makes you unique is the lessons you learned back then & continue to follow through life. I am not saying you to be stubborn about anything but its just about knowing what you like & following your heart rather than going with the trend. 

For instance when somebody is smoking & offers you to do the same but that thing doesn't come in your value books than you can surely deny the offer sweetly.

So yes! This is it for today. As said I will share a book & channel , here it is  Book :  THE GREATNESS GUIDE BY ROBBIN SHARMA

Video channel : LAW OF ATTRACTION COACHING.

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Have a great day!

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